Sunday, June 19, 2005

today when i was in the gym i talk to the instrutor and then the tittle of the newspaper catch my eye"dara terpulih suami tertipu"i understand the tittle but the problem is i don understand what they mean by dara terpulih and suami tertipu.... then i ask the instrutor what they mean by the tittle.... the instrutor look at me for a while... blink blink blink i can see his head is look hard whats the best way to explaine... then he started" you see when a girl have an intercourse..."(i din know i look so innocent) then i came in... i know what is dara... but then can be repair one meh? he say ya tru traditional way... wah... that is the first time i heard such thing...
then i ask what has it got to do with the tittle... he say cause they can heal it so the husband have been bluff... hmmmm good one... so i start reading those article...then the instructor continue "usually for malays" then i thinking very hard why... and finally i got the answer.... hmmmm religion....
but then i don understand why they want to do it... i mean like if that was their past their husband should be able to accept for who she was her past and everything why should you hide it?? if that incident was accidently and when the girl is not in the wrong why pinalise the girl for what she has been rob from.... if the girl really did the intercourse before with another guy why should her husband should not know about it... i think this is totally not fair for the girls species..
you see if you want an intercourse you need both party.. as in one boy one girl unless you are of course homosexual.... why blame it on the girl only and not the guy.... they say they want virgin girls so if you want virgin girls it is only fair that you guys also keep your virginity... is not fair that you go out looking for one night stand and want your future wife to be a virgin..... cause is greatly impossible.... if guys constantly looking for one night stand there would not be any virgin girls... ok fine lets say in your life time you took away like 3/4 virgin girls and if everyone in the world do that what have we left and you want them?? haih selfish creature...
the newspaper say that if the husband know that the girl is not a virgin it will bring some harm to the new family... haih... use your brain.... if it was this case that means that your husband does not accept for who you are... for what you have done for him... i mean like came on... if your girlfriend or wife have done anything wrong but then she have change or anything isn't that the main thing that she stay loyal to you?? for all those time that she have treat you right... be there for you and it will all end just because of her little mistake??? what happen if she would not forgive you for what you have done in your past... how would you feel??
this world is so not fair... especially to the girl species... we are said to be the weaker species but then with all those thing around us it look like we are the stronger species mentally... all those discrimination... those thing that us girls have to keep to ourself so that our husband won't abandon us.... while guys can have a few wife.... forget it... this is the world you never get to change the mind set of other people... guys are forever the king of the world...the dominant of the human species... no question ask cause this has been pass down since centuries... i rest my case |