Friday, September 17, 2004

In life there's alwiz two side but sadly people only tend to see the negative side of life.... As they say when there is a positive side there alwiz a negative side,happiness can alwiz end ups to sadness... this is a part of life that noone can change no matter how they try...Noone can stay happy forever or sad forever.. there alwizs up's and down in life...
Well..Everything changes... feeling changes.. object changes then there will be happy feeling when things change... it can even suffer when we hold on to what is not there anymore...Holding on to a love that is constant changing will bring suffering not only mentally but also pysically....
In order not to suffer... we as human shud learn to let go the past and not hanging on to it...as they alwiz say is easy to say then done.. well this is true especially when you jus lost a love one may it be your grandparents or parents or let it be your jus break up with your boyfriend...
Whats the point of crying and hanging on how last time use to be.. it have all past and everything will not return even if you cry your eyes dry.. is it worth it??
I jus broke up with my bf and i've been hanging on to the past.. I tried to change myself convince him that i've change and ask him back but then it maybe a big mistake... hmm... and wat i have was a full memory of suffering..well all this would not have happen if and only if i learn to let go..he was not happy so m i.. both parties is living in hell.. wats the point of being togather when both party is not even happy.. so i decided to let him go... he is a much happier person and i also have learn a valueable lesson that is to let go...
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